Valentines Day is here my lovelies so before you get all dolled up for the night whether you are in a relationship or single and free to mingle here are some ways you can instantly become more attractive.
Maybe you think how someone looks physically is the most important thing when it comes to attractiveness……but it’s not. Yes it totally helps if you are a stunner but if you don’t know how to work with what you got you wont shine.
1) Stand tall, Walk with confidence
You could be sculpted by angels but if you walk around with your head down, shoulders slouched and an dreary looking imaginary rain cloud over your head that follows you everywhere you won’t seem that inviting. If you look shy, closed off or like you lack confidence, that is how others will see you too. Walk with your head high. Don’t shuffle and be afraid to strut what your mamma gave you.
There is nothing more attractive than confidence, once you see your own beauty, so will everyone else…
2) No Negative Nancys
If you constantly have a negative attitude and your glass is always half empty rather than half full. People wont want to be around you. Everyone has bad days but you have to eventually see some light in the darkness. Everybody has their bad stuff and they don’t need yours too. Constant complaining is also very off putting.
You can’t have a positive life with a negative mind.
3) Smile like you mean it
Smiling is attractive. It doesn’t have to be a big giant scary smile…..just a soft one will do. Plus if you smile more you will actually start to feel happier too.
4) Laugh it up
I don’t mean fake laugh randomly or force yourself to laugh at something you don’t find funny. Just relax and find the humour in things that happen in your life and you will naturally laugh more which will make you more attractive and seem less like a grumpy grumperson….:-)
5) Be you
Focusing too much on trying to be like others and trying to imitate what you see as attractive in others can create a sense of falseness or a lack of genuine character. Embrace what is unique about you and try and stay as true to who you are as you can. It’s so much easier when you don’t pretend just be the best you that you can be.
Someone who accepts their flaws or who can love themselves for who they are will always appear more attractive.
6) Speak from the heart
People who can voice their views or who don’t fill a conversation with boring or annoying …….s*it talk…..sorry……usually come across as more attractive. yes you can have silly talk and talk rubbish with someone but when you add in meaningful subjects or you can argue a point it does make you seem like the kind of person someone would enjoy talking to over and over again. It can also help you figure out if you connect with someone about the same subjects.
7) Believe you are, then you are.
See your beauty for all that it is. Inner and outer. If you start to feel attractive in your own skin others will see it and be attracted to you. Avoid seeming full of yourself though or too cocky. This can have the opposite effect. Your poop does stink……just like everyone else’s. Just know that you are a beautiful individual and show it to the world.
Have grace and confidence. Educate yourself and respect yourself. What you put out into the world will come back to you. Believing in yourself will make you more confident. Taking care of your mind and body will too. Relax and try not to feel pressured when around others. You have all the tools you need to be more attractive my loves.
Happy Valentines day!
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